Yearly Archives: 2006

Wal-Mart chix and Little Venice

Vestal new york wal-mart sign

If it wasn’t for the old school Southern Italian dinner, the visit to Wal-Mart, and the 102 F. temperature, it would have been like another day in Berkeley.  Oh, forgive us, Bay Area, for shopping at Wal-Mart!  We bought some underwear and chicken strips. 

Wal-mart chicken strips

Wal-Mart chicken strips

 Then we staggered across the parking lot to Barnes & Noble for iced coffee.  Thanks to computer networking of the highest caliber, we were able to use our discount card, no problem.  I would have sworn I was in the El Cerrito, CA branch.  Same color scheme, same author photographs, same wall sconces, same God-awful Godiva boxed candy and teapots on the cafe display shelves, same annoying nondescript world beat pounding in the background.  Plenty of Binghamton University students, from the looks of them. 

Calamari appetizer at Little Venice in Binghamton

Calamari at Little Venice in Binghamton

During a visit with my dad at his personal three-room inferno later in the day, he suggested we have a “real” Italian dinner.  “Real” meaning no skimping on the cheese and being served anything parmigiano on an oval silver platter, for starters.  Like at Rutha’s, on Northern Boulevard in Queens, now long gone, but the site of many a biscuit tortoni snarfed down by yours truly.  We followed orders and went to Little Venice Restaurant (111 Chenango Street), a Binghamton institution.  The street seemed kind of dead but when we went into the place via the back entrance there was a sudden cacophony — the joint was jumping!  We were quickly seated and menued in the large rectangular dining room and set about discussing options. 

Rigatoni parm at Little Venice in Binghamton

Rigatoni parm at Little Venice in Binghamton

Matt went with rigatoni parm and I with combo (chicken, meatball and sausage) parm.  We added fried calamari, which we soon regretted.  Not only were there no tentacles, but the rings were all of the same small diameter.  I’d like to know what happened to the rest of the squid involved.  If you only ate this dish here, you’d never know what a real calamaro looked like, but I guess that’s the point.  That and the ability to pour out prepared rings from a large freezer bag, though I have no proof of the latter.  The soup and salad were “eh” and we hoped the entrees were better.  They were, having plenty of melting mozzarella and a good house sauce.  That said, if I ever went back I would have the antipasto I eyed at the next table along with an entree.  I do admit to being surprised at how pricey Little Venice is given the economy of the area.  Even I don’t like to drop over $17 for a plate of mixed parmigiano.

Combo parm at Little Venice in Binghamton

Combo parm at Little Venice in Binghamton

Hot in Binghamton

86 degrees in Binghamton NY showing on car thermometer

Today we had the second of what I am sure will be many, many trips to Denny’s on Vestal Parkway with my dad.  He has about a million friends there,  all of whom are very concerned about his health and treat him like royalty.  We had coffee.  Lots of it.  It was hot as hell here again so the AC in Denny’s was a relief.  Always a great sign when it’s 86 F. when you get up in the morning.  Later on I went to the Lost Dog Cafe in downtown Binghamton, one of the only bistro-type cafe/restaurants in the area, to fill out housing forms for my dad in cool comfort, sipping on, in succession, a mango lassi and two iced coffees.  Matt and I then had supper at a terrible Chinese buffet on Front Street.  We knew better but went anyway for some retro action.  The food was bad, but not “Chinese food in Queens during the ’60’s” bad, which, if you lived in Queens during the ’60s, means a good kind of bad, at best, or a specific kind of bad, at worst, but was lousy in an all-encompassing way.  Goopy, cornstarchy entrees, deep fried mystery meat with fluorescent red sauce, fried shrimp that had petrified during an extended steam table stay.  The latter proved to be a limited problem, however, since most of what was in that tray consisted of empty shrimp-shaped sarcophagi anyway.  This is only a partial list of the horrors.  The saving grace was the hard ice cream (Hershey’s) that you could dip out yourself.  Thank God there was something there that these people didn’t make.  Never again.

My father and lung cancer

Frank and Matthew

We saw my dad for the first time since being diagnosed with lung cancer and undergoing several rounds of chemotherapy.  He has been through a rough time and lost quite a bit of weight.  Although he feels he looks pretty bad, I think he has an interesting look.  Mean and lean and gaunt, even, yet somehow thoughtful.  We go though life in all its glory and usually it shows.  Is that such a terrible thing?  As long as we are spared pain and suffering, and even if we are not, who cares if we show our age and experience?  People in our society spend so much time psychoanalyzing the meaning of it all and, in my opinion, it keeps a vicious cycle alive.  How about thinking about it in terms of people simply being at the mercy of the human body, and that we all need help now and again as said body breaks down and/or ages?  Isn’t it really as simple as that?  The truth of it is people fear the psychological and social implications of serious illness, and certainly the medical establishment, more than illness itself.  How terrible.  Here then are a couple pix of my dad, who posed in good fun with his oxygen tube for this website. 

frank on oxygen

From Cali to Binghamton

My son, Matthew, and I left for Binghamton, New York, today in order to spend some time with my dad, Frank, who has lung cancer and needs some help with paperwork.  Airlines generally give you no food for free and hawk snack packs these days, so we tried our luck in the airport between connecting flights instead.  In terms of the rip-off factor, Chi-town’s big dog of an airport is right up there.  We had some kind of mass passing itself off as a sandwich at Wofgang Puck’s fast food stand and then a hot Angus beef hero at matt in bed at motel 6 in binghamton ny in 2006 Quiznos.  This was the only time I ever had latter’s grub, and it was not bad.  These two items plus a couple drinks set us back $21 and change.  After getting up at 3:30 a.m. Cali time and then dealing with a 3-hour delay in Chicago, getting our rental car in Syracuse and then driving the 70-odd miles south to Binghamton, we were bedraggled when we arrived at the Motel 6.  Not too bedraggled, however, to miss the large diner on the same street, which we paid a visit to after some minor delousing.  The Spot Diner on Front Street in Binghamton was welcoming when we rolled in around 10:00 p.m.  Ah, the wonder of a diner menu!  Pages and pages of comfort food not to be found in much of the SF Bay Area, and, when it is, it is gussied up and fussy and expensive.  Although I knew this would be a difficult trip in terms of my father’s illness, it would at least allow us to eat at the same kind of diners we grew up with in Queens.  Matthew happily ordered the yee-ro when we noticed it was Greek-run, and I summoned the roast chicken dinner.  A half chicken, real mashers, corn and a biscuit — all covered with cream gravy.  That was after the small Greek salad and cup of Yankee bean soup.  All this for under $10.  While the Spot in no way measures up to greats like the Neptune, Bel-Aire and Keystone in Astoria, Queens, it was pretty good.  We fell into bed full and exhausted.  Incidentally, the Motel 6 in Binghamton is great.  The rooms are every bit as nice as the pricier chains, and this one is fairly new so it is very clean.  Big rooms and not tacky or seedy at all.

BBQ in El Cerrito

coleslaw in a glass bowl

We made an all-American BBQ today with hot dogs and coleslaw, which is what Jon and Matt were craving.  We bought the good hot dogs — the ones with a natural casing that snap when you bite into them.   Be sure to toast the buns on the grill for a minute or so, which really makes a difference.  Serve heated sauerkraut and yellow mustard with the dogs and you’ll send yourself back in time — before BBQs served tri-tip or portabellos. 

natural casing hot dogs in a bowl

Some of the best times I had with my own parents in the 1960’s and 1970’s involved grilling  inexpensive steaks and then drowning them in ketchup.  It’s just what you did back then.  You didn’t  need to have ahi tuna on the grill to have a good time.  Please don’t send me email to tell me that “grilling” and “BBQing” are different – I know, I know!  I’m using a term in common usage, i.e., “We’re having a BBQ today!” 

Jon ready to have some grilled meat

Jon is ready to have some grilled meat